So, I'm not sure if I'm just the thickest person ever, but I can't seem to find the wand anywhere in Xartan's castle. Just defeated him, and had the two ladies come to tell me to find the wand. They suggested it would be in a very obvious place, but I have searched all the drawers, the vases, the bowls, the rooms on the roof, and the dungeon, but just cannot find the darn thing. I went to the dungeon, and tried blowing up the debris blocking the way, but just killed myself in the process. I saw the wand user manual, and looked around that room, but still no luck. I would appreciate any help.

Sorry, just figured it out, lack of sleep really does a number on logic.